The Hispanic Black Gay Coalition has had a long journey that stretches across years of advocacy friendship and community building. Many of us still remember a time when marriage was not just a romantic decision but also a political statement and a reminder that love needed defending. Those years shaped us and taught us to appreciate every win even the small ones.
Back then diamonds were never the focus but the symbolism behind them was. Rings meant more than sparkle they meant recognition equity and the simple but powerful right to stand beside the person we love. Now that the world has moved a little closer to fairness we also enjoy the fun part of choosing beautiful rings.
As our members started getting married they discovered something interesting. Not all diamond companies treat LGBTQ relationships with the same respect and not all experiences feel welcoming. That is why our community kept returning to James Allen and Blue Nile again and again because the process felt smooth and the customer service felt genuinely supportive.
At some point the conversations became so lively that we realized we needed something more organized. Someone said we should write a proper comparison since we have opinions and we have experience and we have a talent for telling stories. So that is exactly what we did.
Members who had navigated the entire engagement process shared their tips and told us the things they wished they had known earlier. Others shared screenshots videos and even stories of late night ring shopping that took place during long Zoom calls. We collected everything to build our own community inspired review.

The surprising part is that our review grew far beyond a simple list of pros and cons. It became a reflection of our values and everything we learned as a coalition. From transparency to fairness to celebrating personal expression the process of choosing a ring mirrors the same principles we fought for years ago.
We also realized that engagement ring shopping is very personal. People care about sparkle and price and ring settings but also about how a company makes them feel. Whether it feels welcoming. Whether it understands that couples come in all forms and that love stories do not follow a single template.
James Allen and Blue Nile stood out for a reason. Their selection is broad their pricing is clear and their websites are easy to navigate. Also their customer support does not make assumptions about who is buying the ring which is a refreshing experience that should be standard everywhere.
As our review took shape members offered helpful ideas for what should be included. Some said we needed more clarity explanations some wanted color guidance and some simply wanted to know which vendor is better under one thousand dollars. Yes we covered that too because practical questions matter even in romantic moments.
Writing this comparison felt like reliving the coalition days. Everyone had something to say everyone had memories to share and everyone loved the idea of helping others who might be looking for a ring right now. Guidance is a big part of our identity and this review became another extension of that mission.
Even though our organization no longer operates the spirit of the coalition remains alive in the community. People reach out to us through this site with questions about rings proposals or vendor recommendations. We love hearing from everyone and we try to reply when we can.
This contact page is here to keep that legacy going. If you have a suggestion a concern or even a diamond story you want to share we welcome it with open arms. Your experiences help keep this space relevant and helpful.
If there is a detail about James Allen or Blue Nile you want us to look into let us know. If you tried one of them and had a unique experience we would love to hear about it. The more voices the better the guide becomes.
Thank you for stopping by and for supporting this strange mix of history advocacy diamonds and love. You will find the contact form below. Feel free to reach out anytime.
We look forward to hearing from you.
